5 Things Standing in the Way of You Manifesting Big

Manifestation has become a trend, but it has always been here. It’s how we came to exist, and it’s what we do every day, consciously or not: we manifest events, people, businesses, even the systems we live in.

So why do some people manifest big things while others keep hitting walls? Here are five things that get in the way. All of them are connected.

1. A lack of patience

When you really want something, it’s tempting to rush at it. And rushing is exactly what pushes it further away. Instead of making hurried decisions, take some time alone and readjust your focus. Which brings us to the second one.

2. The wrong focus

If one desire takes up your whole mind, you’ll sprint at it like a bull at a red flag, and knock it out of reach. Learn to spread your focus: have a project you’re working on, a few things you care about, so no single wish can swallow you.

And if you’ve already rushed and lost it: let it go. What’s done is done. Focus on yourself and your vision. You can manifest something similar, maybe even better.

3. A lack of self-love

When something doesn’t come, most of us turn to self-pity or blame: “I should have done this”, or “it’s your fault”. That puts you in a state where nothing beautiful can come in.

Talk to yourself with more understanding. Everybody makes mistakes: the person next to you did, and the one next to them will soon enough. Be kinder to yourself, start feeling right again, and you’ll start manifesting sooner than you think.

4 and 5: selfishness and ego

In the video I talk about the law of exchange: why giving (respect, compassion, support, love) is what has kept me in a state of abundance for years. And about the ego, the mask you wear in the Matrix: why decisions driven by the heart attract, while ego-driven ones quietly make enemies.